Thursday, December 2, 2010

Female Values

Female on the other hand also have different values which consist of love, beauty care, and relationship, feelings and spouse communication spending a lot of time in nurturing, helping and supporting with one another.
Their sense of self is mostly through feelings, quality of relationship and love experience fulfillment through relating with sharing nature.
Women reflects upon these values rather than thinking of being involve in what men value most in outdoor activities, sports, ambitious career, goals and achievements in life.
They are in most ways is opposite to men because women are more concerned in harmony, family matters, community and loving co=operation.
To most women relationship is more important than technology, business or work and love to dress up accordingly to their feelings.
The female may even because of their personal expression and feelings change their outfits numerous times a day just to be comfortable at heart.
Their primary importance is communication but to share her feelings is far more important than just achieving business success and goals.
Narrating events, exchange of conversation and relating is considering another source of great fulfillment.
As for men it is hard to comprehend, he may get closer to understand a woman’s experience of talking, sharing and relating and to compare him rather want to win a race or achieve his goals.
Between the two sexes, men are more goals oriented whereas women are just concern about being relationship oriented but both are also will express their love, goodness and care.
Now, read the difference between male and female values; when two men go to lunch, what will they discuss?
It will be something like discussing on closing a business deal or things regarding about their personal goals.
When two women go to lunch, what will they talk about?
They will take it as an opportunity to nurture a relationship, giving supportive advice, very openly, intimate, shopping, narrating their family affairs or rather behave like a therapist discussing with clients.
Female are gifted in psychology and counseling because being very involved in personal growth, spirituality and everything that nurture life and healing.
Throughout the centuries, women are very intuitive and have developed this ability in anticipating the needs of others.
They pride on being considerate of needs, requirements and feeling of others also often offer help with assistance to others without request.
To a woman giving and receiving help is not a sign of weakness and proving one’s competence is not important by their nature.
A man will in difference, when a woman offer help or assistance, it seems that she does not trust he has the ability to make the fulfillment.
Whereas, for the female they have no conception of the male sensitivity, when someone offer help is just like adding value which make her feel loved and cherished.
When a woman loved her man, she will somehow give advices, suggestions because it is their nature is to improve things.
To most women, when offering advice, strong constructive criticism and looking for more space of improvement is an act of their love to her man,
Men are different, when his spouse tries to make improvement for him, it will be neither ignored or feel humiliated in a way and mistakenly thinks she is just assisting him to grow.
As for the female without this insight into the male’s nature will very easy unknowingly and unintentionally offends and hurts her most beloved man.

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