Thursday, November 25, 2010

Complaints between Men and Women

Most women will complaint about their man trying to ignore or not listening while talking and explaining their requirements.
Men do not listen but will try to please their woman by offering a solution instead and expect the women to appreciate this gesture of love.
But the men do not understand because the women want empathy not solutions and want him to listen and do as she wants it to be.
On the other hand, men frequently complain that she is trying to change his ways or even controlling all situations.
Whereas, when women love their men, it is normal to feel the responsibility to assist and nurturing him in doing the best of everything in the so call right order or decision.
Woman will try to form an improvement environment, so obviously the man will become her focus.
Waiting for opportunity she will insist and persist to help in all aspect even telling him what to do or not to do.
Although she feels she is nurturing him but whereas man will feel like being in control by her and want her acceptance instead.
So both men and women alike want the acceptance in whatever they offer to each another thus is the cause of differences.
Can the differences and problems be solved?
Yes, if we look into why men only offer solution to her and why women keeps insisting only on improvement.

Monday, November 22, 2010

Is Love Eternal?

Romance and falling in love is a magical moment but does it last forever?
Most of us are naive to believe that we can be exempted from family problems that our parents faced, free from all odds and will be destined to live happily ever after.
But in reality, when the magical moment recedes and daily chores takes over in our life than differences will surface such as the male will expect the female to react, behave and think alike while the female will also expect the male to behave like her.
Further to that, both sexes will start to demand, command, intolerant, resentful and judgmental.
With the differences, even the best intention to love, love will silently dies off as problems accumulate in form of; lack of communication; resentment build up; increase of mistrust; rejection of demand will end up with repression.
Then both men and women will start to scratch their heads to seek answers for questions like;
How did it happen?
Why it happen?
When did it happen?
What makes it happen?
Where did we make it happen?
The answer to the above questions lay within our physical mind thus developing most brilliant and complex philosophical and psychological modes which happens to all wedded couples.
Thousands and millions of people are still searching for the right partner to experience the so call special loving feelings.
Yet, most couples cannot find those lovely feelings and at the end painfully separated.
As for those who can sustain their love long enough will be married but the others that cannot sustain their love will not be able to fulfill.
Some couples will stay together maybe out of obligation and do not wish to restart the love phenomenon out of fear, that it will face another failure.
There are of course some couples that are able to grow in their love affairs and make it till the end, but ultimately men and women must stress out to respect and accept the differences in order to make love blossom and last.
Only through much understanding of the opposite sexes’ differences will successfully implement to give and receive the loves from our heart.
Do remember, by validating and accepting the differences between men and women will sort out to discover creative solutions in getting the results that both sexes want.
Men and women must sort out the real differences in order to produce love and care to support each another to maintain the true magical lasting love so analyses “the opposite sexes’ differences” is important.

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How many of us realise or aware women and men are supposed to different and are at odds with each another?
How a divorce does begin?
Without realising the important truth, we tend to get frustrated and angry with the opposite sex.
Actually it is just we want the opposite sex to agree to our feelings; get what we want; do what we want them to do; and to follow our desires and commands.
It is wrongly assume that if someone loves you; they will behave like us, act like us or follow our ways of living.
Having such attitude, we are denied or being prevent ourselves from taking into consideration by giving more necessary time to communicate and check the differences within both sexes.
Therefore it sets up disappointment after another and mistakenly expects the opposite sex to behave, talk, understand, communicate, feel and respond like each another.
As a matter of fact, because of the natural differences, the relationship starts to be filled up with undesirable conflicts and frictions.
To reduce such confusion, it is important to clearly recognize in respecting such differences while dealing with the opposite sex.
Do not forget, God created men as Adam and women as Eve so everything had to be sort out and to be well explained.
To eradicate the mistakes, we need to explore both sexes’ values which are inherently difference and not to make mistake by offering solutions and invalidate feelings while another side offers unsolicited advices, command and directions.
So by checking the differences, we will be able to immediately make up responses to each another with more productive methods.
Instead of feeling being “what is so bothering in our relationship” both sexes need to create some strategies to do away with conflicts at times.
It will be a great challenge that the male know how to overcome their resistance in giving love to the opposite sex and the female must also need to overcome their resistance in receiving love.

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