Most women will complaint about their man trying to ignore or not listening while talking and explaining their requirements.
Men do not listen but will try to please their woman by offering a solution instead and expect the women to appreciate this gesture of love.
But the men do not understand because the women want empathy not solutions and want him to listen and do as she wants it to be.
On the other hand, men frequently complain that she is trying to change his ways or even controlling all situations.
Whereas, when women love their men, it is normal to feel the responsibility to assist and nurturing him in doing the best of everything in the so call right order or decision.
Woman will try to form an improvement environment, so obviously the man will become her focus.
Waiting for opportunity she will insist and persist to help in all aspect even telling him what to do or not to do.
Although she feels she is nurturing him but whereas man will feel like being in control by her and want her acceptance instead.
So both men and women alike want the acceptance in whatever they offer to each another thus is the cause of differences.
Can the differences and problems be solved?
Yes, if we look into why men only offer solution to her and why women keeps insisting only on improvement.